1. People, how can you be so sure that he/she is the one that you're gonna marry?
Some people just assume or assure that they are going to last till marriage with their partner! When they told me that they are going to marry each other in the future, I was like ...! People, how can you be that sure?! There is still a long way to go, especially if you're still so young like me. Don't be so stupid! Anything can happen in the future that can cause you and your partner to break. There is no such thing as CONFIRM in a relationship! Those who always said they will marry in the future or they surely wont break with each other, guess what happen in the end? They broke up! And when they bump into each other, they act like they don't know each other. WTH?! I saw a couple long time ago which call each other laogong &laopo. &guess what? They broke up in the end. Please remember what I said, don't think your girlfriend or boyfriend now is going to be your future husband or wife. People changes easily.!
2. Your boyfriend/girlfriend is not your everything.!I'm really sick of people who are too sticky to their partner! Please don't depend too much on your partner! You don't have to bring your boyfriend or girlfriend along with you to everywhere! Some people just too...!! When they go out with their family, bring him/her along! When they go out with their friends, bring him/her along! Even when they have special occasion, they still bring their partner along! Oh, come on! Some of your friends might not like you to bring your partner along! &this cause them don't want to hang out with you!
3. Some people just treat their partner as everything!
People, I know and really could understand your partner is really important to you! But friends is really important too! We, human being cant live without friends, do you know that? You really think you can survive without any friends? When you spend all your time with your partner and ignore your friends, they'll start ignoring you too. You cant blame them! One day, if you break up with your partner, and you come to your friends, do you really think they wanna care about you? It's like you're using them! Have you ever think that you might break up with your partner one day?! And when you break up, you'll have no friends!! Change yourself now! It's never to late to change yourself!
4. Your partner shouldn't be controlling you!
Some of you just have a boyfriend or girlfriend that control you too much! They shouldn't be controlling you! You're his/her partner, NOT a dog! You must still do what you wanna do, you must still talk to your friends that you wanted to talk to. Not just listen to what your partner said! What I mean is, when a girl wanted to talk to her best friend (guy), their boyfriend will jealous and get angry and wanna break or something. &when a boy wanted to talk to his best friend (girl), they get angry and cry whole night long and so on. Please don't act like this, as it shows how childish you are! If you don't allow your partner to talk to others, then why don't you just lock them in a dog cage in your room?! &how you gonna work in the future as you don't talk to anyone? Please think carefully.!
What should you do?
First, you must not say your relationship would last forever! There is no such thing as confirm in a relationship! Second, talk and hang out more often with your friends, not only your partner! As we cant live without friends! &don't have to bring your partner along when you go out with your friends! Third, don't just jealous whenever you see your partner talking to others, he/she has the right to do so! You should give yourself and your partner freedom and let him/her have their own space too. &that's how a relationship grows and last! :) Ohya, please don't promise your partner anything as you can never do it.!
P/S: No offence, okay? (: Just telling what I'm thinking!
